You Are That Girl book

Are you ready to be THAT girl?

Beautiful soul, have you ever dreamed of a life where you were THAT confident girl … but felt totally clueless about how to make it happen? 

That girl who had everything going for her & always seemed to have it under control? 

That girl who knew her worth & didn't take BS from anyone?  

That girl who didn't let fears and doubts run her life?

That girl who was filled with self love and happiness?

That girl who ultimately lived in her true, confident, beautiful essence?

You are her - You just need to bring her out!

The truth is beautiful, you are already THAT girl - you've just lost touch with her.

The confidence you so want is within you. 

In fact, you are so much closer to unstoppable confidence and self love than you think, even though it may not feel that way right now.

I know this because I was in your shoes a few years ago, struggling with my confidence for a long, long time.

I spent years feeling insecure, unhappy & critical about myself.

I always knew that I was meant to be that confident girl, but I NEVER knew how to create the confidence I dreamed about. 

My lack of confidence hit a low point about two years ago.

My low confidence crept up in my life in several ways.  

It affected my love life, career, friendships & self image.  

It impacted how I viewed and treated myself.

SICK of feeling insecure and doubtful, I decided that something had to change.  

Instead of focusing on everyone and everything else besides myself, I decided it was time to work on myself.  

I learned that working on my confidence was the only way that I was going to get out of this rut, so that's exactly what I did.  

I learned how to be confident, and from that point on, everything in my life changed!!  

I began to feel confident, self-loving and happy with myself.

It wasn't a difficult or extensive process; I just had to learn the proper tools and techniques for improving my confidence and self love.  

This is why I am SO confident that the confidence you want can be yours, much sooner than you think.

I learned the specific spiritual + practical tools to unleash my inner confidence, which changed my life.

I am so confident that by teaching you the same tools, you can also become the most confident you to date. 

What if I told you that in 21 days..

You wouldn't feel insecure, low and doubtful about yourself?

You could become the best version of yourself to date?

You could have everything going for yourself, with life getting better & better?

You could feel genuinely loving and confident about yourself?

You would feel happy for being you?

You could be the girl that others wanted to be just like?

You're on the verge of a massive breakthrough.


You see babe, in 21 days you WILL experience all of the above.

If you're on this page, you are on the verge of massive breakthrough.  

I can tell that you want to make a huge change in your life.

You are ready for this. 

Life is SO much more amazing once you learn how to tap into your confidence & live in your true essence.  

Confidence work is the groundwork.  

It is the laying of the foundation of your life.  

It is the root of your branches.  

Once you become a confident, self-loving and positive person, you will find that your life will transform so effortlessly.  

It doesn't work the other way around babe.  

Save yourself so much stress, anxiety and heartache by working from the ground up.  

EVERYTHING in your life is tied to your confidence and how you feel about yourself.  

You are THAT girl.

The truth is love, you are that girl who has it all together, is confident, and has unshakeable belief in herself.

You've just lost touch with her.

That's ok babe, because life happens.

Let's put the past aside. 

 I'm here to show you how you can build your confidence, reconnect with your self & lead a happy life, RIGHT NOW.

Remember, life is not about what happens to you, but how you RESPOND.

Life is 10% circumstance and 90% attitude.

You have the choice right now to get back in touch with your true, confident nature.

"Jacqueline, this book is phenomenal. I just finished the 21 day journey and I can't tell you how confident I feel. The 21 days helped me become confident again and clean up the areas in my life I needed to. I didn't realize how much "baggage" I was holding onto that was keeping me stuck. I feel lighter again and most importantly ME again. I can't wait to keep using these tools every day and become more confident." Kayla

"One of my close friends got me your book because I've always struggled with confidence and wow I'm almost done and I had to tell you how much its helped me. I feel SO much better and empowered, its like I feel like a different person. The forgiveness exercise really helped me let go of some issues from the past. It means so much that I can work on these type of issues in this guidebook, without feeling embarassed and ashamed. Thank you <3" - Melissa

How does this work?

This book is designed to take you on a 21 day journey where you an expect to grow your confidence, self love & happiness.

For 21 days, I provide you with a straight forward guide.

Each day contains a healing lesson, with specific skills, techniques and exercises.

 The days build upon one another and are designed in a specific order. 

Each lesson I go over is psychologically proven to increase self love, confidence & empowerment.

At the end of 21 days, you will have done the work necessary to UPlevel your confidence.

Why 21 days?

It takes 21 days for a new habit to take root.

Practice these skills for 21 days, and you will have begun to train your brain to be more confident.

Having genuine confidence is a skill; it takes practice and consistency.

Once you follow these skills for 21 days, you will find it easy to incorporate them into your daily life. 

What will you learn?

  • How to develop your confidence with a step by step guide for 21 days
  • Letting go of negative self-talk, behaviors, and habits
  • Acceptance of the past 
  •  Forgiveness techniques for moving on from the past
  • How to develop self respect
  • The art of setting boundaries and standing up for yourself
  • How to monitor and transform your negative self talk
  •  Stopping the comparison habit with others
  • How to find your passions and life fulfillment
  • How to tend to self care needs and have confident habits
  • How to choose empowering relationships and have self respect
  • How to be yourself & feel confident in your own skin.
  •  SO much more!

Benefits to expect

  •  Increased confidence and self love for yourself
  • Happiness and a positive sense of being
  • The ability to deal with stress and negative vibes
  • Techniques that you can implement daily, to raise your vibe
  • Self respect for yourself, which will make others respect you even more
  • A strong sense of self
  • A happier life!

About Me

Welcome beautiful! My name is Jacqueline and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. I have my Master's and Bachelor's degree in psychology, specializing in relationships.  

I'm obsessed with helping women have the best relationships, first with themselves and then with others.

I know how critical confidence and self love is. I was an insecure girl for much of my life, before I finally learned how to improve my confidence and transform my life.

The "Be Confident!" remarks were hard for me to follow, so I decided to implement my own style of confidence work.

I mix an intuitive, spiritual style with practical therapeutic techniques. I blend the best of the spiritual and psychology world, to provide a unique approach that works for every woman.  

No matter what you are going through, I am confident that I can help you increase your confidence, self love and happiness in 21 days with this book.

Read even more amazing reviews!

"After reading this book and going through the 21 days of confidence work, I feel like I am finally feeling good again. I lost touch with me and felt so out of it. I decided to get this book and it was such a great decision. Now I am able to practice the skills daily and increase my confidence day by day. So grateful for this magnifence guide thank you Jacqueline!!!!" Anita

"I got this book after listening to a few of your live chats. I felt connected and good listening to you so I decided why not? Turned out it was SUCH a good decision!!! I feel confident, more positive and like that girl!! I feel so much better about myself so I want to thank you for your work." Grace